Do men like hand jobs
What Guys REALLY Think About Hand Jobs
Guys mastered the art of the hand job back before they ever had their first girlfriend. So as it turns out, they critique women's efforts pretty, well, hard. We asked nine guys what they really think of hand jobs—and what they had to say was surprising, funny, and an oddly helpful lesson in anatomy. For the sake of your worn-out wrist (and love of all things hilarious!), you have to read their responses.
"A hand career is a decent consolation price, at best, and a pleasure-less waste of time at worst. The most common mistake I've experienced is that women manage to focus on the erroneous part, the base. There are very few nerve endings in the base of a penis. Ladies, focus on the head!" —Eric S.
"I personally don't thought hand jobs. Obviously, sex would be preferable most of the time, but I think hand jobs have their advantages. One of the biggest in my opinion is that it allows couples to be more spontaneous. There are certain situations where having sex would not be an option, but a hand job would be—and that definitely hel
Everything You Need to Recognize About Giving a Superb Hand Job
Sexual activity doesn’t have to involve penetration to be satisfying, and hand sex isn’t just teenage fodder. Hand jobs offer a lower-risk way to intimately connect with your partner without penetration.
You might choose to stop after the hand job, or maybe you favor them as sexy foreplay. Either way, your touch can still carry pleasure to your penis-owning partner (and you), no matter your age.
Gabrielle Kassel (she/her) is a queer sex educator and wellness journalist who is committed to helping people feel the best they can in their bodies. In addition to Healthline, her work has appeared in publications such as Shape, Cosmopolitan, Well+Good, Health, Self, Women’s Health, Greatist, and more! In her free time, Gabrielle can be found coaching CrossFit, reviewing pleasure products, hiking with her border collie, or recording episodes of the podcast she co-hosts called Bad In Bed. Follow her on Instagram @Gabriellekassel.
Totally by coincidence, two different guys called me for therapy this week with similar issues. One was regularly going to massage parlors for “happy endings,” and the other was paying adolescent men he met on Grindr for quickies.
They each consideration their behavior was wrong, and both felt ashamed. The first guy, Pedro*, wanted to end. The second guy, Chang*, didn’t really want to discontinue, but thought he “should.”
Both guys are married. Both guys have high-paying, pressure-filled jobs. Both guys have trouble talking about sex. So they’ve each arranged to have sexual encounters without any talking.
That’s one reason they do it. As Charlie Sheen once said, “I don’t pay women to have sex. I pay them to leave afterwards.” Pedro and Chang were paying so they could depart afterwards—no talking, no cuddling, no connection. No obligations, or anyone else’s expectations.
Some men pay for handjobs because they want touching. Unbent massage doesn’t really work for this, because it’s so different from organism caressed or hugged. And negotiating with a wife or girlfriend (or husband or boyfriend) re
What do men appreciate better when getting a hand job?
Jen
- Condom
- Masturbation sleeve
- Latex glove
JMS
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Gareth3
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Craig
Dirty-Wife5
Haven’t we had this question before just worded differently?
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DLJL6
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Gareth7
I prefer handjobs when she uses her mouth.
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Game_for_anything8
Latex glove all afternoon long!
Love_Stud_Too9
That’s called a puff job
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MattWillTry10
None of the above, just hand and maybe some lube
Nvravrg
hand only but I won’t turn down some nipple sucking simultaneously
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CurvyJilly12
Have used a latex glove to do it in role play in my latex nurse dress and he did love it…but for a regular hand job…just the hand with the occasional flick of the tongue on the glans works every time.
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MK
Quite like the latex glove as an aesthetic but it’ll never experience as good as a sleeve does.
jr
I love her hand and some lube. I do enjoy having a stroker used on me too.
Happilymarriedman
If the oh is doing it to me then it’s just hands and lots of lube.
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